2008年6月11日 星期三

feeling~~~

After read this article,here, I recognize how sweet a man could be. I think the sweetest thing is not how expensive gift you get, but how much you are moved by people's behavior.

Who is my Miss. Right? I'm sure she is the girl makes me moved most. I also wish I could be the sweet guy through my sincere heart.

Extended article: here

2008年5月3日 星期六

Right or wrong??

What is right and what is wrong. I always think it is depened. Just think until I'm involved.

I like to help ppl coz that makes me happy. What makes me confused whether it is right or wrong?

I try to help ppl coz I think I can make them happy. However, as my help, I figured out what I did could make troubles to others. The both sides are related. I help one side, may cause another side happy or troubled. Then I'm totally confused. Which one is right? Do I have the right to another side without the agreement of another side?? What did I think good is really good for them or one of the sides? Or I'm just selfish. I just want to feel happy, coz I think I do help.

How come a simple thing "help" I could make it so complicated??? I'm totally confused. Just like mental clash. I have no right to decide which one is good or bad for ppl. I can't do something only standing on my or one side point.............Now, the situation is so tough for me.........That made me so stressful......

I think I need to quit. I need to figure out sometimes help is not only help. Help could make ppl troubled. I need to take care afterward. Otherwise, my goodwill could be evil and my motive could be selfish.

2008年4月29日 星期二

Want to Divorce? YouTube-Style

I learned this topic from my ESL teacher, Andy 5/2 .
There are two video she uploaded to declare open defiance to her husband.
Story1 and Story2

People tend to be hysterical when getting mad. I think there is no absolute true or wrong. That is their home stuff. Personally, I don't agree that she show the detail things in front of people, because that is not only hurt her mate, but also damages herself. Moreover, as soon as publishing the video, you can't take it back, even delete the moive. People may already wathch it, download it or forward it.

In another way, I admire her courage to fight for herself. It does need a lot of courage to face the consequence of the videos, a lot of criticism and opinion. Maybe her husband, who is a CEO with more resources, hurt her a lot to force her to do it. Anyway, she did find a good way to fight for herself.

Internet, such a amazing invention, makes everything powerful. Just want to remind: "The water that bears the boat is the same that swallows it" Internet could be helpful, but also could ruin you.